In his remarkable book, “The Inner Voice of Love,” Henri Nouwen shares these words: “The great challenge is living your wounds through instead of thinking them through. It is better to cry than to worry, better to feel your wounds deeply than to try to understand them, better to let them enter into your silence than to talk about them. The choice you face constantly is whether you are taking your hurts to your head or to your heart. In your head you analyze them, find their causes and consequences, and coin words to speak and write about them. But no final healing is likely to come from that source. You need to let your wounds go down into your heart. Then you can live them through and discover that they will not destroy you. Your heart is greater than your wounds.” We need to embrace our wounded humanity and not act out. To grieve our human limitations and endure hunger, emptiness, disappointment, and humiliation without looking for a quick fix or for a fix at all is to not try to fill our emptiness too quickly without sufficient waiting. We won’t ever make peace with our wounds without sufficient grieving.